Monday, July 20, 2026

Sisters at Play and Memories Today

 

    Allen wheeled his big sprayer truck in the dirt lane and parked below the house.  Climbing out of his truck, he paused and watched us, amused.

    “What are you girls doing?” my brother asked.

    Gasping for air, we told him we were “saving people” – that there was a big flood and we were the only ones who could swim and bring people safely out of their high-rise apartments. I suppose we thought he’d be intrigued, for most times when folks asked us what we were playing, they seemed to enjoy our imagination.

    Not Allen.  He shook his head and said, “Don’t you know that children who play like this go crazy when they are older?”

    Allen grabbed his dusty lunch bucket from the truck, strode to the cellar door, and went inside.  Rachel and I looked at each other. We just shook out heads and “swam” back out the lane to rescue more people.

    The east side of the lane was lined with trees from what we called the Bender woods, because they belonged to Bill Bender. He was some distant relative and didn’t mind if we traipsed through his woods, we thought. Or, maybe he just didn't know we traipsed through this woods! This time, though, we merely used the lane and pretended that the tall trees were high-rise apartments or houses in some town of our imagination. Folks were stranded in their apartments because of flooding, and it was up to us to rescue them!

    For some reason, our play was more fun when we had more obstacles to cross. For some reason, we deliberately planned our play so that we became heroes of the day.  That’s why the boats we used had no motors.  How else would we need to swim to rescue people if the boats had motors?!) The boats were strapped to our waists and we swam to the apartments and waited for people to come get into our boats, calling encouraging words to them as they stepped into our boats. Then we “swam” back across the waters to safety. Once there, we unloaded our passengers and swam back to rescue more.

    It’s funny now when I think back on the fact that neither of us were good swimmers. Our only experience was in the Casselman River that shared frogs and tadpoles, and sometimes snakes - among the rocks. The river’s water barely reached out shoulders after a rain. Yet here we were, moving our arms in strong breast strokes to bring people to safety. I wonder how many times we swam in and out the lane and how many lives we saved in our play.

    After our play, it’s no wonder we were tired and didn’t complain when bedtime came. That night, I thought about Allen’s warning after I snuggled in bed.  So what, I told myself as I drifted off to sleep,  I don’t care if I do get crazy when I am older. I’m having too much fun to worry about that now. And if I do go crazy, I won’t be able to know it – and I wouldn’t have missed the fun playing, either.

    Now, Allen is gone, and with him his teasing. We disliked it then, and we miss it now. Deep down, I knew Allen was a master at jokes and figured if he was really that concerned, he wouldn’t have smiled like he did. For certain, the amusement in his eyes would have been absent as he stood there with his lunch bucket, watching his sisters play.

    We are older now, and we’re still sane. We can no longer “swim” in and out the dirt lane.  Rachel and I still manage to do things together. Only this time, instead of saving pretend lives, we help each other.  I was with her for her double mastectomy five years ago, and she came to help me after mine.

    Instead of swimming out the dirt lane at our homeplace, we travel miles to work and play, together. We're slower, and arthritis shows in the way we move and groove. 

    Our homeplace has changed and so have we. Yet the memories of laughter and play are some of the most cherished ones we have today.

 

 

 

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